- Living with/Loving a BPD patient (in a committed relationship) (1373)
- If you're not romantically involved with this person, see my response regarding roomates, friends and aquaintences.
Living with a BPD patient is a mix of experiences. One moment you can be dealing with a child throwing a temper tantrum. Another you could be in the arms of the most passionate lover you've ever known. And then other times are like an intense hostage negotiation, the stakes are high, the outcome is black and white and you hope it will be over soon, but it probably won't be over until tomorrow. Seek the advice of a therapist.
You may also find more insight in my experinces in the blog
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