- BPD Fights (113)
- This is just one of the aspects of living with or loving a BPD patient.
I know this sounds cocky, but I swear nothing can be as bad as living with
someone with BPD. These are the things that stand out the most, but it's
far from everything. There were nights I'd go to sleep wondering if she'd
try to kill me in my sleep. Many, many sleepless nights because she insisted
on arguing frivolous shit until daybreak. Three, maybe four times while
I was driving, she opened the passenger door and probably would have fallen/jumped
out had I not grabbed her. I had her committed once. That only lasted an
hour, the crazy bitch side of her knew not to act up in public.
She woke me up to tell me "I have a knife", that time was a suicide thing. Although I couldn't help but wonder if I may have been a target. This little 120lb woman had tried to strangle me twice. I used to work out for an hour five days a week, so my neck is fairly thick. It was very uncomfortable, but I knew she wasn't strong enough to choke me. I could still breath, barely. I considered doing something, like hitting her with a frying pan that was within reach, but I didn't think the cops would believe me, so I was forced to endure it.
I thought she poisoned me a time or two, once she admitted it.
See also When to leave someone with BPD.
You may also find more insight in my experinces in the blog
Have any suggestions, corrections, updates you think should be added to this asnwer? Contact me
Other similar questions with this answer:
bpd sexual games (9)
borderline personality hell (8)
borderline personality disorder hostage situation (5)
bpd fights (5)
borderline personality disorder bullshit (4)
borderline personality disorder crazy bitch (3)
borderline personality taking the bait (3)
bpd is bullshit (3)
why bpd spouses end up hating you (2)
borderline disorder bullshit (2)
borderline personality breaking point (2)
one she likes me, the next day she hates me borderline (2)
borderline ex making me crazy (2)
bpd "so mean" (2)
crazy bpd bitch (2)
borderline personality crazy bitch (2)
bpd crazy bitch (2)
borderline personality bullshit (2)
bpd hell bitch borderline (1)
borderline personality disorder+making scene in a store (1)
my girlfriend is driving me crazy she is bpd (1)
crazy girlfriend just tell her you're not putting up with her shit (1)
borderline personalty disorder breakup (1)
borderline personality disorder my girlfriend is driving me crazy (1)
fucking mad borderline personality wants to meet partner (1)
borderline personality ruin life (1)
she told me it was over so i would do what she wanted borderline (1)
if someone with borderline tells you they don't love you is it true? (1)
borderline ruined life (1)
crying game borderline personality (1)
she's a borderline i'm a monster (1)
borderline personality fight (1)
driven crazy by someone with borderline personality disorder (1)
borderline +"off the wall" (1)
borderline "can't take it" (1)
borderline says things they don't mean (1)
borderline personality disorder don't love (1)
verbal abusive husband borderline personality (1)
borderline+engagement+sudden break up (1)
borderline personality disorder "is fucked up" (1)
bulshit borderline personality disorder (1)
borderline threatens to leave me (1)
when people with borderline personality disorder say ... they mean ... (1)
can someone with borderline disorder ever know how mean they are (1)
wife borderline personality disorder arguing (1)
she-smashed guitars (1)
bpd and abusive girlfriend (1)
arguing with someone who has a borderline personality disorder (1)
borderline personality disorder breaks up with you so fast (1)
bpd and disagreements (1)
what makes a bpd mad (1)
bpd -(she's making me crazy) (1)
she smashed * guitar (1)
borderline personality fights with (1)
borderline personality disorder says mean things (1)
games played by borderline personality disorder (1)
"borderline personality disorder" "physically abusive" (1)
borderline personality disorder mad me come across as childish (1)
borderline personality kick her ass (1)
borderline girlfriend loves to fight (1)
borderline personality and guilt trips (1)
baiting fight bpd (1)
borderline you ruined my life (1)
borderline bitch out to get me (1)
bitch borderline personality disorder (1)
my bpd girlfriend is making me crazy (1)
how long do borderlines stay mad (1)
how to deal with abusive relationships with borderline personality disordered girlfriend (1)
yelled at boyfriend with borderline personality disorder (1)
screaming and swearing disorder "spouse" (1)
girlfriend bitch borderline (1)
bpd sexual games (9)
borderline personality hell (8)
borderline personality disorder hostage situation (5)
bpd fights (5)
borderline personality disorder bullshit (4)
borderline personality disorder crazy bitch (3)
borderline personality taking the bait (3)
bpd is bullshit (3)
why bpd spouses end up hating you (2)
borderline disorder bullshit (2)
borderline personality breaking point (2)
one she likes me, the next day she hates me borderline (2)
borderline ex making me crazy (2)
bpd "so mean" (2)
crazy bpd bitch (2)
borderline personality crazy bitch (2)
bpd crazy bitch (2)
borderline personality bullshit (2)
bpd hell bitch borderline (1)
borderline personality disorder+making scene in a store (1)
my girlfriend is driving me crazy she is bpd (1)
crazy girlfriend just tell her you're not putting up with her shit (1)
borderline personalty disorder breakup (1)
borderline personality disorder my girlfriend is driving me crazy (1)
fucking mad borderline personality wants to meet partner (1)
borderline personality ruin life (1)
she told me it was over so i would do what she wanted borderline (1)
if someone with borderline tells you they don't love you is it true? (1)
borderline ruined life (1)
crying game borderline personality (1)
she's a borderline i'm a monster (1)
borderline personality fight (1)
driven crazy by someone with borderline personality disorder (1)
borderline +"off the wall" (1)
borderline "can't take it" (1)
borderline says things they don't mean (1)
borderline personality disorder don't love (1)
verbal abusive husband borderline personality (1)
borderline+engagement+sudden break up (1)
borderline personality disorder "is fucked up" (1)
bulshit borderline personality disorder (1)
borderline threatens to leave me (1)
when people with borderline personality disorder say ... they mean ... (1)
can someone with borderline disorder ever know how mean they are (1)
wife borderline personality disorder arguing (1)
she-smashed guitars (1)
bpd and abusive girlfriend (1)
arguing with someone who has a borderline personality disorder (1)
borderline personality disorder breaks up with you so fast (1)
bpd and disagreements (1)
what makes a bpd mad (1)
bpd -(she's making me crazy) (1)
she smashed * guitar (1)
borderline personality fights with (1)
borderline personality disorder says mean things (1)
games played by borderline personality disorder (1)
"borderline personality disorder" "physically abusive" (1)
borderline personality disorder mad me come across as childish (1)
borderline personality kick her ass (1)
borderline girlfriend loves to fight (1)
borderline personality and guilt trips (1)
baiting fight bpd (1)
borderline you ruined my life (1)
borderline bitch out to get me (1)
bitch borderline personality disorder (1)
my bpd girlfriend is making me crazy (1)
how long do borderlines stay mad (1)
how to deal with abusive relationships with borderline personality disordered girlfriend (1)
yelled at boyfriend with borderline personality disorder (1)
screaming and swearing disorder "spouse" (1)
girlfriend bitch borderline (1)