April was talking to me on the phone, I'm almost ready leave work.

She told me that last night when she was getting something fixed on her car, the mechanic drug her into the bathroom and made her give him a blow job. She told me that she kept asking him to stop and she asked him why "he's making me do this". I'm really mad. I tell her I'm leaving work and we can talk about it when I get home.

April's ex insisted on calling the police regarding the sexual assault. I was trying to convince her to do it on her own. The cop asked her to go to the hospital and have a rape kit done, which she agreed to do. She also gave them the clothes she was wearing so they can test it. They gave her victim's assistance's number, and I did my best to comfort her during this horrible ordeal.

They gave me a bunch of stuff on what she may go through and how I should act. 

She was talking to me on the phone and she heard Kristin, a new co-worker of mine laugh. Kristin's been here about a month or so. She asked who it was. I said it's a co-worker.

She got upset because I didn't tell her about Kristin. Well duh, I'm not telling her shit that makes her mad, I'm not stupid.

Now she's all concerned about how we act in my department. We have a tendency to be quite vocal and open in my department. She's known this all along, why the hell does it make a difference now? She gets mad and hangs up. I say "Love you, talk to you soon" to dead air so my co-workers don't know about my bat shit crazy girlfriend.

Later, she decides to fight with me over IM.

Her
Me
well I guess your fuckin off somewhere.
no, why would you think that?
how's your day going?
thats all you guys do is laugh and have a party

April was on the computer, I walked in, I found out that she registered on a dating site. What the hell? She gives me shit all this time about cheating and here she is on a dating site! Honestly, I really don't care, I hope she finds someone she can drive crazy who isn't me.

I hope this is my way out, she finds somebody else, I leave, everything is on "good" enough terms and voila! 

Well this came out of the blue. We're chatting and she says she's going to take a nap. And out of nowhere:

Her
Me
(10:18:55 AM)well Iam gonna gotake a nap
what do you think of open relationship"
ok, do you want me to call you at 1:00?
what do you mean an open relationship?

 I know what that means, but I want to make sure that I'm not jumping the gun, sometimes we use the same terms that mean different things to her and I.

see others,but also have each other

Ok, we are both on the same page on that one. 

mind if I ask who you have in mind?
I don't think anyone right now
how about you

Wait a minute, she's the one who asked, not me... 

I'm not sure, do you think that will help you?
no not really, but what i was getting at i wanted to see if you were thinking about someone else
no I'm not thinking about someone else.
you always say theres no one interested in yo but you must just say that

 Why? because you'd flip out on me?

you said your not sure
you know that I'm not fabio or brad pitt, I'm not the type of guy who has women falling down at his feet.
yes, I said I'm not sure how I feel about an open relationship.
but I'm willing to do anything to help you.
you there?
yeah
do you need me to call you at 1:00?
i don't know
what else are you thinking about?
really don't know just spacing out
maybe you'll feel better after your nap?
ok let you go
you don't have to let me go, but since you said you were going to take a nap, I thought that was why you were spacing out?
tell me what else is on your mind, what frustrates you or anyting.
you want to talk about.
thats ok I will just let you go
ok, I'll call you at 1:00 have a good nap.
sweet dreams sweetheart.
(10:31:48 AM)love you.
(10:32:58 AM)you there?
(10:36:50 AM) April has gone away.
(10:37:13 AM) ok, I guess you went to take a nap. I'm going over to market to get coffee.
(10:37:15 AM) love you.

Well that's interesting. She asks me about an open relationship, then asks who I have in mind? I have me on my mind. It's horrible to say this, but I hope she finds someone who meets her needs, financially independent, loves shopping, can spend 24 hours a day with her and not lose his mind, and can read her mind. I'm scared to leave her, I'm scared to stay with her. If she finds someone else that takes the pressure off of me.

I got home, I'm making dinner, she doesn't do that much since the sexual assault and I try to help her out as much as I possibly can. She corners me. "Who do you have in mind?" I say nobody. She says "I wasn't serious, I was testing you...".

Well what the hell? I'm supposed to be honest, but only if it suits her. Stupid bitch. You're the one who  asked me, you want honesty or do you want me to tell me what you want to hear?

I can't read minds. 

A co-worker, a FEMALE co-worker is leaving the company, she's not like a best friend or anything, but I'd really like to attend her farewell get-together.
I asked April if I can go, telling her it was a MALE co-worker, cause I know that there's no way she'll let me go to a FEMALE co-worker's send-off.

She says no.

I beg and plead, it's been years since I was out with my friends just for a few drinks. No. No way, no how. 

April told me that she's concerned about her friend Dick. He's acting weird and he's on new medication and she's concerned. She wants to go to the bar he hangs out at to find him. 

I tell her ok, I'll see her when she gets home. I went to the grocery store, on the way home, something went wrong with the car. I think I lost a bolt to the alternator. This is great, now I'll have to drive the stupid minivan to work in the morning. It doesn't have any heat, it's about 30 degrees.

About 9:00, I put the kids to bed and go to sleep.

The phone rings at 10:30. April's drunk, she's at a convenience store and she can't drive any further. Can I come get her. I do. She complains the whole way home that it's cold. I get her home, strip her naked, put her in a warm bath.

She tells me that she slept wtih Dick. I really don't care. I need to go to sleep, I have to get up in a few hours.

About an hour later, she throws up on me. I called in sick to work. I changed the sheets, go to sleep.

About 4:00, I call into her work and tell them she's sic and won't make it in.

Then I go to my regular job. I posted this thread (subscription required, I posted with an alternate name that I don't use any longer.). God I hope my weekend gets better. 

Her: see i am not important because you new my days off
Me: that's not the case.
yeah everyone eslse wanted off
so they got it
never fails
let me ask you this how many days did you take for me?
really?
think about it
this year? I don't know, I need to ask payroll how many days I have left.
well you took off for 3 days for your mom except the one day you went with me for ny test
thats it
I've taken 10 vacation days this year from what I can tell based on my paycheck.
I took 2 days that I spent working at Mom's house.
and of course (name of holiday deleted) is coming and my birthday but that doesn't mean anything
so that means I spent 8 days with you.

Why do I feel the need to justify everything and lay it all out? It doesn't get me anywhere.

no that means your appts where counted in that
lawyer
dentist
drs
actually no, because those would be on next week's check.
no i am saying all year
you took like 2 sick days
but who cares
dentist/dr. is on next week's check, they aren't counted.
yes, I did take 2 sick days.
so you get appt free
also on next weeks check.
no time
I also have 1 1/2 personal days that I didn't count in that either.
yeah but you will take them when i have to work

huh? I take personal days and I don't go to work. I have no idea what she means.

and that doesn't count the funeral either.
you know i always like it when you take off friday after thanksgiving

I like to "work" that day since it's a goof-off day and we get to leave early.

but i guess (co-worker's name) got it or (another co-worker's name)
no they didn't.
i forget how many months i been asking you  for a day i lost traqck
track

The way she's acting, who would want to spend time with her if they didn't have to?

you must love your job to death
#! #1 pro
no, but you could be positive about it.